Continuing our friendships

Update on Mike Stohlmeyer

Saturday, January 12, 2008

Dear friends of Mike and Maureen,

I just talked to Maureen this morning, and Mike’s health situation is again very, very critical. This past Wednesday night, Mike broke out with a severe case of hives on his arms, legs, feet, and midsection,and it has just not gone away. This is causing a terrible burning, and this is on top of all the other medical problems that Mike presently has, and that you have been informed of in the past few weeks. Mike and Maureen have consequently been having sleepless night the past few days because of this recent breakout of hives.

Pray for God to intervene, for these hives to go away, for Mike and Maureen to get some sleep, for Mike and Maureen to know if there is anything else that they should do, and for Mike to be able to eat food (Mike has not been eating much food at all lately, and has lost a lot of weight.) Pray also that God would pour out his grace, peace and comfort upon them. 2 Corinthians 2:2-11.

I need to mention a couple of other things. During the past few weeks you have received a few emails from Maureen and others about Mike’s condition, and you might think that only recently have things been very difficult for Mike. But let me just give you a little perspective - I have been a close friend with Mike for nearly 30 years, going way back to the late 70’s. During this period I have talked to Mike on the phone literally hundreds and hundreds of times; and during the past 10 years, we have talked most every week. And I cannot ever recall a time when Mike felt completely well. His chronic health condition has continued thru all these years, with pain and suffering literally every week, and most every day. Now the severity of this pain and suffering has ebbed and flowed over the years, but in general it has gotten worse over time, and much worse these past few years.

You have most recently heard about his health condition these past weeks because of the severity of his condition, which has been extremely critical, and close to life threatening. And that’s why there have been more regular requests for prayer for him as of late. But life has been very hard for Mike and for Maureen for over 30 years - the trial has been extremely difficult, but now even more so than ever. And so keep praying for Mike, and for God’s will be to be done.

It really is a miracle that Mike is alive now, and who knows how long God wants Mike to remain in his body before God takes him home. 2 Corinthians 5:1-9. I know that Mike is a man of hope - we have talked about this many times - and his desire is to go to heaven. Mike knows very well that to live is Christ and to die is gain. But he knows that for now, God wants him here. And so pray that God pours out his grace, and pray that Christ would be exalted in his life at this time.

Let me also encourage you to keep Maureen in your prayers. As much as you need to pray for Mike, you need to pray for Maureen too. She has been Mike’s caregiver for all these years. It has been exhausting for her - she loves Mike and is thankful to be able to serve him, but nevertheless, we must pray that God keeps strengthening her as well. She has a full time job, and then comes home every day to take care of Mike - indeed, she is going 24/7 - and this has been going on for 30 years. And yet she has remained so faithful.

But let me also say that I don’t know of any couple like Mike and Maureen who have exhibited the grace, joy, peace, hope and love of God thru an extremely difficult trial like this. Week after week I am encouraged by Mike and by Maureen, as I hear how they continue to trust in the Lord and in His word, and continue, by God’s grace to persevere. Amazing grace, and all for God’s glory.

Thanks again for your prayers, for they are part of God’s sovereign plan and will help to fulfill His eternal purposes. We will try to keep you updated.

Steve Hogan

What kind of music are you listening to?

I heard a song that was given to me the other day by my son that made me cry, and now gives me the goose bumps, each time I hear it. It’s called “Amazing” by  The Almost. this is a christian rock band and this cd would be a good christmas gift in my opinion. Few songs give me this kind of emotion. two other songs that do this are ” I am a servent” by Nancy Honeytree and “True Devotion” by Margaret Becker

Beyond the Reunion

Saturday August 18th was amazing!  The number of saints who came was overwhelming, way beyond what I dreamed of. Reva has compiled a list of e-mail addresses to help us continue the conversations and friendships which were renewed at the reunion.  Thanks Reva and Greg Merchant!  A number of folks took pictures and I am sure they would like to share them with us.  Maureen Stohlmeyer gave me her photos and I used these to start a web site for photos.  Go to photo gallery to see these great shots.  You can add your photos  to this site as well as downloading the photos you would like to have on your computer. 

Greetings from Virginia

“A friend is one to whom you may pour out the contents of your heart, chaff and grain together~ knowing that the gentlest of hands will take and sift it, keep what is worth keeping, and with the breath of kindness blow the rest away.” ~Arabian proverb

I’m so excited about the reunion this summer. I won’t be able to come, but I’m thinking of each and every one of you.

Gary and Linda, you both mean so much to me. Gary, I fondly recall those ‘Creation Science’ lectures. The only other person I remember teaching was Dean David Boylan. Can you imagine that in light of what is going on with Professor Guillermo Gonzalez, right there at good ol’ ISU?

Larry and Sue, how wonderful to hear from you! So encouraged by your testimony, Larry. Scott, happy for you that you remarried. It’s an answer to prayer. Mike and Maureen, so good to hear how the Lord has blessed you. Dave and Dawn, I love the family picture! What a blessing to see the Lord’s faithfulness after all this time.

I’d like to hear from more people that are there in Ames and Iowa. Tim & Nancy? Are you guys going? Brad & Brita, Scott & Julie? Dave & MIssy R.? (Don’t know if you’re still in Iowa, even.) Terry & Cheri Box, Doug B., Steve, Diana, Tim & Kristen, Mike & Jenny, Kurt & Debbie, Eric B.–why don’t you guys write in and say hi? Especially for those of us who can’t make it, it would be great to hear from you anyway. Has anyone seen Dave & Marcia? Of course, Duane & Jolene! What about those flung to the utter-most–Chris & Virginia, Steve & Evy, Brent & Mary, John & Carol, Greg & Patsy, Jane & Mike, Craig & Lee, Dave & Ruth, Sam & Jane, Peg & Jeff; will Dennis & Thelma be there? Where’s Pete, and Gordy & Dee, Kurt & Peg, Robb & Nadia, and Pam & Dave? You know who you are; if I didn’t name you, you still have to write in. If you don’t write in before the reunion, you’ll have to catch me up afterwards!

Okay, a little about me. I left Ames in 1987, moved to Virginia in 1988. Met my husband, Hector M. Ochoa, in 1991, married in 1994. He’s the most teachable man I’ve ever met–no offense to the wonderful saints I knew in Ames. We live in the beautiful Shenandoah Valley.

We have one son here, Freddy, and six others in heaven waiting for us. My husband has three other kids, and now we have two grandchildren in Texas! He’s from El Salvador. It’s a beautiful country, although much in need of stability. The house-church movement is in full swing there.

We’re involved with Cornerstone Church and Ministries International. It’s a network of churches covered by an apostolic council. We have multiple leadership and cell groups, and have been planting churches all over the world. Great short-term missions opportunities!

Since I started my family late, that’s the priority right now. Freddy starts school on August 22, and that doesn’t work well with driving 22 hours to Iowa and back. Our church has a private school up to 8th grade, and Freddy is in middle school (that’s junior high for some of you). So our finances are tied up too. We need to know about these things in March or April, so we can plan our trips between Virginia, Iowa, Texas and El Salvador!

I keep imagining seeing everyone again…with our graying and bald heads, a little extra weight around the middles, and grown kids and grandkids. Yikes! So here’s all my hugs and prayers, and I know that the Lord will bless the time there. I also keep imagining seeing everyone in heaven. In the New Jerusalem, I’ve heard we will each have 75 cubic acres of our own! What bliss! So I’ll just have to think, ‘I’d like to visit Corina Luster,’ and ~swoosh!~ (or whatever) and we’ll be visiting. The best thing I can imagine about heaven is being with Jesus, of course. The second best thing is being with all of you in our perfected states! So, put me back on your Christmas card list, and let’s try harder to keep in touch. Many, many blessings to each and every one.

Cathie Mathes Ochoa
With extra love from Hector & Freddy

P. S. Sheila Streicher has started a group on Facebook, so there’s more messages over there. Come on over and check it out!

http://www.facebook.com/p.php?i=729071548&k=e9c864c8ae&r

Hello from Jerry Geist

I lived and served in Ames from 1975 until I believe it was 1987.  In 1987 I moved to Bloomington, Minnesota and was involved with the church there.  After two years in the frozen north God moved me to Marion, Indiana to be involved with a Christian ministry that handles behaviorally disturbed teens in a residential therapeutic treatment program.  I was a teacher there for 13 years.  During the normal school year I worked at Marion.  During the summers I worked with the same type of student on a lake in a remote part of Ontario, Canada.  I was a girl’s team leader for the first two summers and taught survival training along with assorted other duties for the other eleven summers.  For most of those summers I had a small boat and motor so that I could go fishing and take staff members out and put them on fish.  I spent ten to twelve weeks each summer without electricity or running water.  I saw many a beautiful sunset and influenced many students.  This work was quite stressful.  Still, the Lord designed this time to let me have a little taste of fishing heaven.  I caught many walleye, pike, perch, small mouth bass, and lake trout.   After 13 years of this I quit and took a year off to destress before the boys with the white sport coats with the tie-behind sleeves showed up.  Then I taught science at a Christian school in Toledo, Ohio.  I didn’t really care for that.  I spent the next year substitute teaching and trying to get into teaching in China with a certain organization.  Around December I found out that they couldn’t use me.  That spring I interviewed and took a job with an organization called NICS or Network of International Christian Schools.  They directed me to teach science classes at Pyongtaek, South Korea.  I am in my third year teaching in this school.  I teach life science, earth science, physical science, biology and either chemistry or physics (they alternate each year) each day.  It’s a lot of work, so much that I’d only do it for Jesus.

   One of the most influential things in my life over these years was my encounter with a ministry called Gospelink.  They are about supporting poor pastor’s in certain countries.  These pastors must have experience in starting churches.  I supported two pastors in Zambia, Africa for a number of years.  I could write them through the organization and I would get letters from them a couple of times a year.  These guys were seeing large numbers of converts.  I decided to take a mission trip to Africa and see if these reports could be true. 

   Each summer Gospelink takes folk on missions trips.  I ended up going with about 75 people from all over the U.S.  We were broken up into teams.  I was with people from the middle of the United States.  We went out into the rural areas and shared the gospel in public schools, did some hut to hut evangelism, and showed the Jesus movie at night.  I presented the gospel (using Gospelink interpreters) and many hundreds of people responded for salvation.  It was overwhelming.  I know that our little team of about nine people had several thousand people respond to the salvation message by the end of our time there.  I have no idea how many of those people really got saved.  That summer the teams went to several African countries.  All the results were similar.  When I got back to the states I discovered that the life expectancy for Zambia was age 32.  Aids has ravaged Zambia and other parts of Africa. 

   I now support a pastor in the Ukraine, Malawi, and Mozambique.  Gospelink reaches India, Ukraine, and six African countries.  They have a web site–gospelink.org 

   If the Lord tarries and desires, I may promote this work after my teaching is finished. 

   I never married.  I am reluctantly realizing that at age 50, I am not able to keep up with the young bucks.  I walk slow, can’t always pick up consonants at the beginning of words, my vision keeps changing, the hair grows thick out of my ears etc.  I’m not dead yet but I’m realizing that the world belongs to the young.  Still, the Lord leads me in having a part in changing small parts of it. 

  I would love to connect with some of you people.  I expected to die with some of you.  The Lord has led differently.  In all my life I have never had better Bible teaching and modeling than I did when I lived with all of you in Ames.  I have had teaching as good but not better. 

  

Love in Christ,

Jerry Geist 

Hello from Dan Lilly

This is my official invitation to an ISU Bible Study Reunion Potluck. I am requesting yourpresence and any others you may know who were involvedwith ISU BIBLE STUDY during the 1970’s. We will be meeting:

Where?- Ames, Iowa, at the Brookside Park-Hickory andLinden Shelters

When?- August 18, 2007Time?- 10 a.m.- 5 p.m

Why?-To reconnect with old friends to encourage forthe days ahead.

What to bring?- A main dish, and a salad or dessertwith serving utensils.Also, lawn chairs or blankets, if desired.There are picnic tables (and grills) available.

Provided?-plates and plasticware, styrofoam cups.  Beverages provided-Coffee, lemonade, and water.

Bring pictures, stories, and memorabilia, song books,etc. for some good old fashioned reminiscing.

Please RSVP by adding a comment, so we can plan accordingly.

 P.S. LindaKolb Rathje is a photographer and will be available to take pictures.

Greetings from Sharon McKelvey Barker

Hello friends!  So many years have passed since my brief sojourn in Ames from August 1974 to November 1975.   Since then my path took some twists  and turns but God was faithful and had His watchful eye on me.  Don’t want to give away all of my story but I’ll give you the highlights.  In 1988  I married David Barker.  We lived in Toronto for just over two years where we had our daughter Celidh.  She is now 16 and very much the picture of me in the banner on the Ames website page.  Hard to believe I was only one year older than her when I came to Ames that summer of ‘74.   We reconnected with Grace Community Church in 1991 after moving back to the Guelph area.  Looking back over my photos brought back so many memories!   I look forward to hearing your stories!

From Larry Clemente

Dear Friends,

   I’m thankful for this opportunity to express to those who have known me, a little of the last 30 years in my life, especially since we shared life together for a while in Ames, when God’s Spirit moved and changed the course of our lives. When I came to Ames in 1971 as an ISU student, I had already had some zeal for God, having grown up around a very religious extended family. I was attracted to the lives of those who came to ISU (Jim McCotter and many others). I did not know much about the Bible at first, but I learned quickly, and took part in the Bible studies and evangelism. Within a few years I was appointed as an elder along with others.

   Sue Strader and I were married in 1975, and in 1977 we moved with the Bovenmyers and others to East Lansing, MI. to start a church at Michigan State University. Shortly before this time, though, I began losing “feelings” for God. The Bible was getting “old” to me. I had often pointed to an experience I had in high school at a Young Life retreat as my conversion moment but now this was in doubt. I fought this doubt, but I was afraid and too proud to talk to anyone about this. After moving to Michigan, I just faded away from any leadership role. I went through terrible emotional trauma, trying to fight something I could not understand, to the point of sickness at times. Others there tried to help me. Sue did not understand either. She thought she had married a spiritual man.

   It took many years for God to bring me to a point in my life where I finally understood very clearly that I never had the Spirit of God in me. I cannot describe in words the nightmare of knowing that I was condemned for eternity and yet still would not, could not, turn to Jesus. “No one can come to me unless the Father who sent Me draws him”. I had always wanted God on my own terms and not His. It took about six more years for God to break my pride to the point of utter hopelessness. Like a drowning man who reaches up in one last faint hope of being saved, my heart turned to the Lord like a child, and He lifted me up into redemption and the peace of forgiveness flooded my soul in wave after glorious wave. The war was over. The enmity with God was gone and only love for God and Jesus took it’s place. That was January 21, 2004. My life has never been the same since, as my wife will testify. The grace of God is transforming me. The old Larry Clemente died 3 1/2 years ago.

   I struggle with the same things you all do and am far from perfect, but I have an assurance of Heaven, by God’s grace, and my biggest problem is over. I belong to God now and I believe He waited for me 50 years for a purpose, to bring glory to Him. Sue and I live in Columbus, Ohio and have seven wonderful children. We meet with the Linworth Road Church there. We are planning on coming to the reunion in Ames and I know we all will have a great time once we get over the shock of how different we look after 30 years. Maybe we can strike up some old tunes also! How does that sound?!

Dan and Vicki Benson

Hi. Kathy and Scott Hanson alerted us to the big reunion. We definitely will try to be there. Is there anyone to check with as far as what we can bring? Our phone # is 262-268-0755 and our e-mail is benzoz@msn.com.As far as our story: After a journey too long to recount here, I had started reading the New Testament in the summer of 1975. Simultaneously, at the age of 20, I had decided to go to Iowa State to study farm operations, of all things, with the intent of being a back-to-the-land hippie type. One day while walking through the Memorial Union, I heard someone teaching from the Bible in a room. So I sat outside the room and listened, thinking it was some sort of class. After sitting outside like that for a couple days listening, I asked someone coming out what was going on and whether it was open to the public or not. He told me it was. So I started going. Mike Stohlmeyer was preaching and I had never heard anything like it before — someone actually teaching from the Bible. And kids were sitting around on the floor eating their lunches, as well as in folding chairs. Must have been about 50 people.After a couple days, in mid-October, I was sitting waiting for the Bible study to start and I met a guy named Dave Laugerman. We got to talking and I remember confessing to him how hard it was to live according to the Sermon on the Mount. He asked me if I knew I would go to heaven if I died that night. Of course, I didn’t. That night he came to my room on Hyland and shared the 5 spiritual laws to me. I dropped like ripened fruit, PTL!What followed is that Dave recruited me to help out at the Life Herald, I changed my major to journalism (not realizing that I was following in my Dad’s footsteps) and then worked for People and Sports and Today’s Student. Vicki and I got married the next August and moved into Pammel Court and then later University Village. Tim and Nancy Rude became a big part of our lives. We were part of the group that met on Hyland. I particularly remember, how Vicki went into labor with our first child, Ian, at Jim and Vicki Stanley’s house in University Village after we had just had a spaghetti dinner at Brad and Brita Meyers’  and walked through a driving rain.To wrap up, we moved with a team to Southern California in December 1979. In that team were the Allens, Corias, Raths, McCotters, Angie Walters, Mary Early, Ruth Genskow and many others. We moved to Milwaukee in October 1991 and now live in Port Washington, Wis. We attend Friedens Evangelical Church — www.friedenschurch.org — where I help head the small group ministry. I am taking classes online from Moody Bible Institute. Vicki and I have four kids — Ian, 28, Nick, 26, Katie, 21, and Torrey, 17. My job as a reporter with the Milwaukee Journal Sentinel pays the bills. We thank God every day for his forgiveness and power and wisdom.I continue to learn that the more I learn about God the more there is to learn. My life verse, to which I cling every day, is Hebrews 12:2-3. Looking forward to see everyone, Dan and Vicki Bensonhttp://snortinghorses.blogspot.com/

From Linda (Kolb) Rathje

       We (Scott and I) can’t wait to see everyone at the reunion! Thanks for organizing it Dan and doing this blog site Scott. I’m just imagining lots of people in the park and not seeing many for many years -we may end up telling the same story over and over again as we update each other on what we’ve been doing all those years. That will be fine to do, but it could be helpful if some of us could get updated on the general interesting bios on this blog ahead of time. So, could we  just write a short (or long) update on  ourselves and if you plan to come or can’t make it? This may be a good place to share any major struggles you’ve had through the years or things you’ve learned/learning. Life’s a journey and if you’re reading this, you haven’t made it to heaven yet. :)        Here’s mine: I got involved in ISU Bible Study in spring ‘75, lived with Maureen Stohlmeyer, Kathy Sandholm Allen, and Sharon McCoy Vanfossen at 210 N. Hyland. (jump a few years) I married Scott Rathje (came fall of ‘77) in Aug’83 and had our first son, Tate in Sept ‘85. We felt God wanted us to reach out in a larger city since most of the world we wanted to help reach was not in campus towns, but in cities and so moved to help the team going to Minneapolis in Jan ‘86 .After 5 years in MN and two more children later, we again felt moved by God to continue in our desire to reach the world and moved to Maryland to be closer to Herschel Martindale and to prepare to move to the former Soviet Union as part of a small church planting team to work with GCM’s Commission team. So, we went on staff with GCM in ‘93 and moved to Kiev , the capital of Ukriane in May ‘94. We had the privilege of living our dream of serving Christ by bringing the gospel to  this tremendously open country and being an example of God’s grace and love to a people  who had seldom seen it either in the underground church or under communism. We were there 11 years and had our 4th child while living there. We saw a lot of change. Then in June ’05 God led us back to Ames, Iowa to be with older parents and to help our kids go off to college.  Many of you were there supporting us through prayer and financial support during that time. Through the years we’ve had our share of great joy and sorrow. We are adjusting slowing to live back in the states, but to be honest, the hardest thing is loosing that strong, exciting, well defined purpose we had in Ukraine. We know God has us here and it’s part of His plan, but where do we fit in? We are part of Stonebrook Church, the group of believers that came from our old ISU Bible study days. And even though they have been very welcoming, it’s not the same. Nothing is the same - for any of us (thankfully for many of us). God is doing something new. What it is…is our journey. We can’t wait to see many of you in August.   -Linda Kolb Rathje   515-232-1157